What is required is the willingness to let life impact you; to let yourself see when life impacts you; to see if you go into any sort of separation about it, if you go into judgment, if you go into blame, if you go into "should" or "shouldn't," if you start to point the finger somewhere other than at yourself.

— Adyashanti

from The End of Your World: Uncensored Straight Talk on the Nature of Enlightenment