enlightenment is a destructive process. It has nothing to do with becoming better or being more or less happy. Enlightenment is the crumbling away of untruth. It's seeing through the facade of pretense. It's the complete eradication of everything we imagined to be true—from ourselves to the world.
— Adyashanti
from The End of Your World: Uncensored Straight Talk on the Nature of Enlightenment